Older should not abuse small; they do it because they are stronger and know that small have no intelligence or strength to defend themselves.
Seniors with children.
Example. Maria Pilar is the fat of the house. It’s lazy and eats a lot. Her brothers called Teresa Panza or Sanchica. (You know who Sancho Panza.) Maria Pilar takes is very bad joke. So that as the brothers begin … she cries or gets angry, according gives you.
But the brothers insist, and almost every day there squabble over this issue.
Is not this silly? As this happens in almost every house.
There are older siblings who enjoy teasing the little ones, and there are little brothers who do not understand the jokes and cry.
Older should not abuse small; they do it because they are stronger and know that small have no intelligence or strength to defend themselves. At bottom, it is cowardly, by the elders. But sometimes the jokes are joy and good humor.
Be like are jokes, and even if you are small, you must learn to endure them well.
You have to master the anger that you produce; and you shall be content forming a character, who knows withstand the rough edges and abuses of those around you with friendly face and good humor.
Saber take a joke (have belt) is a sign of good education.
Take a joke and know how to lose a game is, basically, accept a small taste humiliation to the contrary have fun. So a joke accepted without whimper and a lost game with a good face, what is it?
For if we remember to offer it to God, it is a good act of virtue, and anyway, is a demonstration of good education.
Education among brothers.
Of course, we will remove ios insults, even the most innocent, as “stupid,” “barmy”, “stupid”, “rough”, “donkey”, etc .; we will not get the language, nor do mockery, nor will stick, or pellizcaremos.
Is it okay revenge between brothers? And envy?
Our brother gives us a kick in the shin, what shall we do?
We try not to take revenge; we will remove middle and think, “Am I to blame? Do you furious?”. We will not be victims and not go with the story our parents. The “acusica Barabbas” will always be an obnoxious girl who annoy their parents with their complaints and criticisms, and lost the love of his brothers … When he is older he will become a gossipy Picky.
The only way to win an argument or a fight is … avoid it.
If we give our brother what he asks of us, there will be no fight. And if at the moment we lose our book or our ball, to ‘ultimately we find love and sympathy. And above all, think, “Ceder is noble and generous, and I want to be” noble and generous “.
A weak and whiny girl makes scenes like this:
- Mom, that Luisito has broken my sponge!
- Mom, this child will not let me study!
- Oh, that hurts! Oh, he’s hitting me!
This indicates that we are weak of character, we want to defend us, making us victims and highlighting the faults of our brothers.
How to avoid fights.
You have to give a little, give a joke fastidious, put you serious; in short, to make you respect without resorting to violence.