Teaching good manners is ideal to complete the school education of the kids supplement.
Matter of patience and perseverance
Raising children is not an easy task. A good education can condition their future in a significant way. Good manners are an ideal complement to supplement school education. Every age has its educational plot, but we must always be alert to the behavior of children. Consider that one of the best recipes we can take to deal with the kids in the house is the patience. You have to be very patient, because things are not learned in one day. You have to be persistent.
Constancia. You never stop learning. Even us older people can always learn something new every day (as the famous saying goes, “You never lie you without knowing a thing”). We must be very consistent in our teachings. One of the best ways to teach is to give a good example. If you do not want to confuse our children, not do one thing and say another. The daily routine is a good school for the kids, but should see that we ourselves do what we say.
True reflection. Our children, in most cases, are a faithful our reflection. Educated parents, often go well behaved children. What you see at home on a daily basis is what our children learn. And for that, we must start from an early age to teach them. We insist not to forget what they learn. It is very easy to relax certain good manners and correct actions fall soon. If we do something wrong or unsuitable, let us try not to do it in front of children.
Rebuke. Reprimanding children in a good way is not tyranny, is authority. To educate must have authority. Although we must not be too burdensome, as would achieve the opposite effect desired (in the child can come to hate doing things we teach and turn against these teachings). If we go slowly, it will be better understood. When rinamos or rebuke, we must make him understand that we do it for his sake ; although not understand now, in the near future will thank you.
Respect. We must teach them to have respect for other people. They will know better treat their friends, teachers, family, etc. They must learn that with a smile more things are achieved than with a pout or a tantrum. At school, this respect serves to interact with peers and develop their skills and social behavior. It ‘s good to learn to live together and share knowledge. If we observe behavioral problems in children, it is best to go to a professional.
For many years, especially the first, his home and school are educational sources to form his manners. Let us ensure that both accompanied and consistent. Contradictory teachings can confuse the child (there are cases where parents have a way of thinking and living, and the child sent to other schools with totally different from what they see at home teaching). Let us be consistent and follow the same line.