A girl card should not be too talkative or too silent.
Social Coexistence. Family and Social Training.
A girl visiting when talk?
A girl card should not be too talkative or too silent. If you turn to her and ask, you must answer. If you asked to tell something has to tell it simply. If you asked to sing, dance or recite, should be complacent and do it.
You can ask anything, but without insisting. Curiosity, to some extent, is necessary because the curiosity you will learn many things. Desire to know the history of the world; Desire to know the nature of things; Desire to know himself; Desire, above all, to know God is the foundation to become educated person, and a base for success in this life and the next. Thus, in principle, curiosity is a good thing.
But you have to ask to chance. You can ask your parents always, unless they are tired. At mealtime, when your parents talk to each other about politics, or theater, or film, should not interrupt with a question impatient them. But when finished speaking, if you have not understood something, you can ask.
Business should not ask.
There are questions that are always indiscreet and inopportune. For example: Aunt Angela, how old are you? For an older person does not like to be asked their age.
Another example: Aunt Angustias, do you have a lot of money? Another example: Aunt Angela, why do you dye your hair?
Do you understand? Should not investigate anyone’s life.
At school, the teachers should they pregunteis lot, especially, the divine and the human. They will inform you about all that ye would ask them.
Your sisters or older siblings you may ask, for them and your parents and teachers have a duty to teach. But not to overindulge.
What should be the tone of voice?
Neither too high nor too low. To improve voice should read aloud, and to pronounce correction must recite poetry. If you want to look like a well-educated child, tries to speak pleasantly and with correct pronunciation.
In the dining room, when and how you can talk.
The dining room, on the table, is the most pleasant family time. It should not spoil it with discussions with the brothers. We tell you everything that happened more enjoyable us on the day. I must say kind things and try to be cheerful. But do not put “disks”.
What does this mean? This means that no long stories about the twinkie mother, who scolded zutanita. As long stories are heavy. Moreover, neither the parents nor the brothers know fulanita mother, and a very long history bored.
No arguments should count films. This is always heavy. If one has fun in a movie you have to say, I have a lot of fun, it was hilarious, the actors were great … But nothing to tell a film, because film is always a story told “a can”. The same happens with the theater or a novel. You can make a comment. But in general, it is better not count the argument.
Do not interrupt.
Nothing interrupt you are talking, and less if the person speaking is older than you.
The phone, what’s the use?
The phone is very useful to run errands. But not for long conversations with friends. Although it is very nice to talk to them. Well, maybe there is someone with a need to communicate to an important message, and it turns out that girls are talking.
How and when to use?
You do not call your friend by phone at mealtimes, or after ten o’clock at night, not before nine o’clock, unless there is a pressing need.